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penguin pebbling

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Livia Farkas (author)  

First published: 12 November, 2023 | Last edited: 12 January, 2026 |🕒 Reading Time: < 1 minute | 🔗
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Penguin pebbling is a term derived from the behaviour of Adélie penguins who meticulously collect and arrange pebbles to build their nests.

In a neurodivergent context, the expression is used to describe a common neurodivergent behaviour of people collecting and giving loved items to others – “this made me think of you, I think you’ll like this, I thought this was pretty and I want you to have it“.

While the “pebbles” can be physical items, they could also include memes, funny videos, and even info dumping.

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About the Author

  • Livia Farkas

    Livia Farkas is an adult education specialist with a joy-centred approach and a sharp sense for simplifying complex ideas using silly visual metaphors.
    Since 2008, she's written 870+ articles, developed 294 distinct techniques, and co-created 8 online courses with Adam—with 5,302 alumni learning neurodivergent-friendly approaches to time management, goal setting, self-care, and small business management.
    Her life goal is to be a walking permission slip for neurodivergent adults.

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