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Consultation

1:1 and group consulting for neurodivergent adults

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  • Meet your guides
  • 1:1 Online Consulting
  • Looking for something else? We also have group training sessions

We started our consulting work in the neurodivergent space when, after three years of research, we realised that most neurodivergent offerings:

  1. treat ADHD as a fixed box
  2. treat ADHD as a productivity deficit you need to make up for
  3. are made for children, or adapt solutions for children to adults
  4. have learned nothing of the massive scientific breakthroughs from the past two decades that have completely reshaped our understanding on neurodivergence

As a result, they either fall back to stereotypes, misinformation or oversimplification, or simply repackage methods that were created for neurotypical people 30, 50, or 80 years ago.

Neurotypical solutions will just not work for most neurodivergent people.

So doubling down on shaming language, self-discipline and a “just do it” mentality is not just ineffective, it’s downright harmful.

On the call, we’ll walk around the big neurodivergent buffet table of traits, and explore your question together, combining the latest neuroscience research and expert insights with practical learnings from our lived experience as neurodivergent adults and business owners.

Meet your guides

Adam Dobay

Neurodivergent Training Developer, EbE & SUSG – NHS B&H Wellbeing Service

Adam comes to the field of adult neurodivergent education with 18 years of experiential knowledge gained in cross-cultural narrative structures, constructing engaging online education frameworks and using storytelling for personal development and mental health goals.

An award-winning copywriter, screenwriter and independent researcher, Adam has delivered 470 talks on film storytelling for universities, cons & cinemas, produced educational TV series, and worked with integrative therapists, anthropologists and teachers of Eastern spiritual schools.

Adam spent over 2400 hours developing training materials for people with neurodivergent traits and, together with his wife Livia, creating personalised adaptations for dozens of neurodivergent clients and small business owners.

Specialist subjects: ADHD, neurodivergence spectrum overlaps, making systems make sense

Nora Selmeczi

Neurodivergent Project Specialist, Sensory-friendly Environments Lead, Mental Health First Aider

Nora is an experienced project specialist with a penchant for crafting accessible workflows and unearthing relevant cultural and structural insights.

Curious & quick, they build on 15 years of experience in organisations and industries from NGOs to global corporations like IBM, OMD, and We Are Social. Their processes to reliably attain specific business goals have become best practices in 50+ markets.

As a workshop facilitator and project coordinator, Nora has managed 52 new business and retention pitches and designed & facilitated 90+ ideation workshops. They also delivered Train the Trainer sessions, writers’ workshops, and editorial frameworks.

As writer and editor, Nora’s work has been featured in The Calvert Journal, Snow Lit Rev, and Recorder.

At Weirdly Successful they distil their skills and professional experience into inclusive insight work, workshop offerings, and customised workflows.

Specialist subjects: SPD, sense-making, crafting editorial structures & sensory-friendly environments

What we will not do:

  • Nod silently with a condescending smile
  • Judge your life
  • Force you into a diagnostic box
  • Require you to “behave” (whatever that means)
  • Try to motivate you with generic encouragement phrases
  • Tap our watch at 45 minutes
  • Ask how that makes you feel
  • Ask if you’ve tried trying harder
  • Ask if you’ve tried not being neurodivergent

Instead:

  • We prioritise our call to be a safe, non-judgmental space where you are allowed to be you
  • With our 75-minute flexible session format, we provide time for you to settle in, to context-switch, to process, even to go off on tangents and meander
  • We encourage stimming and fidgeting
  • We focus on your needs and a balance of discovery and practical takeaways
  • We’re interested in traits you experience, regardless of your diagnoses
  • We look at your traits not through labelled boxes but an inclusive, holistic neurodivergent perspective
  • We welcome and respect your sensory needs and do our best to accommodate them

our specialist areas

  • Post-referral ‘limbo support’ & action plans for those queueing for an assessment for ADHD or Autism
  • Subclinical support for neurodivergent traits
  • The ‘Now what?’ of post-diagnosis: navigating grief, joy, confusion & overwhelm
  • Co-occurrences and multiple diagnoses, including anxiety, PMDD, OCD, sensory sensitivities and more
  • Intersectionalities: LGBTQ+, minority & immigrant backgrounds,
  • English as a Second Language speakers
  • Running a business on ADHD & Autism

1:1 Online Consulting

In our consulting sessions, we focus on what’s important to you. No shaming, no blaming, no labelling – bring your questions, worries, foggy unknowns and fuzzy plans, and we’ll figure things out together.

Taster session

1 x 75 minutes, starting from £98

This is for you if…

  • you need clarity and support in figuring out a specific question
  • you’d like to see if we’re a good fit.
Book with Nora

Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays

Book with Adam

Wednesdays and Thursdays

2-session Action Plan

2 x 75-minute sessions
starting from £98 / session

This is for you if…

  • you are still queuing for an assessment for ADHD or Autism,
  • you are a new owner of a diagnosis,
  • you have questions about your next steps, and you need clarity to make the best decisions for yourself.
Book with Nora

Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays

Book with Adam

Wednesdays and Thursdays

6-session package

6 x 75-minute sessions
starting from £98 / session

This is for you if you need

  • strategies and support tailored to your needs and goals
  • ongoing support and guidance on your neurodivergent journey
Book with Nora

Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays

Book with Adam

Wednesdays and Thursdays

Looking for something else? We also have group training sessions

Guided discussions,
lived experience sharing,
and mutual encouragement & validation
ensure our groups retain their
community learning aspect throughout.

  • Pre- and post-diagnostic support for late-identified adults
  • ‘Neurodivergent life’ group support
  • Freelancer & small business owner group support
  • Autistic and ADHD Burnout Prevention
  • Neurodivergent-friendly Time Management and Planning

6 x 90-minute sessions
£40 / session

Learn more about our groups here
Related terms:
  • neurodivergence
  • Sensory Processing Disorder
  • neurotypical
  • co-occurrence
  • neurodivergent adaptations
  • autism
  • neuroaffirming
  • stimming
  • sensory overwhelm
  • ADHD
  • PMDD

Weirdly Successful is a 100% neurodivergent-run non-profit, developing strategies & frameworks for neurodivergent adults.

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