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autistic speech patterns

communication language speech
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Livia Farkas (author)  

First published: 21 July, 2023 | Last edited: 1 April, 2025 || 📚🕒 Reading Time: 3 minutes

Autistic speech patterns refer to unique ways autistic folks communicate or use language, but these patterns can also be present throughout the neurodivergent spectrum.

Echolalia – echoing what you or others say

Echolalia is the repetition (echoing) of words or phrases spoken by others.

It can be immediate (immediately repeating what was just said, or saying the last word of someone else’s sentence together with them) or delayed (repeating something heard earlier). The words, sounds and phrases one repeats are called echoes.

Echolalia is part of how babies learn language and communication, so as with many other neurodivergent traits, what’s neurodivergent about them is not the presence but the frequency and the intensity. Many autistic adults continue to echo throughout their lives.

Echolalia can confirm engagement in communication, i.e. “I’m listening, I hear you, I get what you’re saying”.

Sometimes echolalia serves a stimming purpose, because the phrase or word had a pleasing cadence, rhythm or funny meaning, and it feels nice to repeat it in the same voice or accent. Punch lines for jokes or catchphrases from comedies are great echoes and can foster connection and become an in-joke between individuals.

The repetition is involuntary and unsolicited, and not a conscious decision. This mimicry is often misinterpreted as mocking or making fun of others, and it is possible to stop oneself from echoing, but this masking takes a lot of effort.

Learn more about echolalia here

Palilalia – repeating your own words or phrases

Palilalia is the repetition of one’s own words or phrases.

Individuals with palilalia may repeat what they just said – either whole words and phrases or just bits of syllables. It can sound a bit like stuttering, but it’s not related to struggling to get words out.

This repetition is mostly involuntary and may occur due to difficulties with speech planning or self-regulation, and can occur more frequently when the person is overwhelmed or tired.

Learn more about palilalia here

Scripting – planning what you’ll say

Scripting involves using planned, pre-learned or memorized language, either scripted beforehand, or using entire speech bits from movies, books, or personal experiences.

Scripting is aptly named, it literally means to write scripts (whole speeches, sentences or just bullet points) to navigate social situations or express emotions and have a sense of comfort or predictability in stressful situations. Scripting can involve planning out variations of conversations, and rehearse what you’ll say if they ask X or Y.

You don’t have to write anything down, it’s scripting even if you just run through variations of what you’ll say in your head.

Scripting is very useful for difficult phone calls or interviews when you’re anxious that your mind will be blank and you forget what you wanted to say.

Learn more about scripting here

Verbal stims – using words to stim

Verbal stims are a part of stimming, meaning self-stimulatory behaviours. Verbal stims are repetitive vocal sounds, especially whole phrases or words.

These can include humming, making specific sounds, or producing rhythmic patterns with the voice, repeating one favourite line from a song, a punchline of a joke, a funny saying, a satisfying turn of words, a melodic accent or any bit of language that gives you joy or feels nice to say.

Verbal stims can serve as a way to self-regulate, manage sensory input, or express emotions.

When you stim with music – singing, repeating the same line, listening to the same song over and over again, or having an earworm for stimmy reasons – it’s called rhythmic stimming.1

Vocal stims – using sounds to stim

Vocal stims are similar to verbal stims but involve non-word vocalizations, such as grunting, squealing, beatboxing, clicking with your tongue, making animal noises or making other sounds without specific meaning. Vocal stims can be a way for individuals to release energy, cope with sensory overload, and also sometimes communicate non-verbally.

Learn more about vocal and verbal stims here

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Related Terms

verbal shutdown

Verbal shutdown is a temporary inability to produce speech despite having intact language and thoughts - an involuntary neurological response to overwhelm. It's when words exist in one's mind but cannot be physically spoken due to sensory, emotional, or cognitive overload. Casually and incorrectly it is sometimes also referred to as 'going non-verbal', but this term is not preferred by the non-speaking autistic community.

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palilalia

Palilalia is a form of verbal expression where someone involuntarily repeats their own words or phrases, often with decreasing volume. This natural pattern can help with language processing and self-regulation, particularly during times of stress or when processing complex information.

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scripting

Scripting is a communication pattern where individuals use memorized or prepared phrases in their interactions. Common in autism, it serves as a valuable tool for managing social situations, expressing needs, and conserving energy while communicating. Scripting can be prepared ahead of time or drawn from previously heard phrases, and helps many autistic people communicate more effectively and authentically.

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echolalia

Echolalia is a speech pattern where individuals repeat words, phrases, or sounds they have heard. Common in autism, it serves various purposes, including communication, language processing, and emotional expression. Echolalia can be immediate (repeating something just heard) or delayed (using stored phrases from past experiences), and is a valid form of communication that helps many autistic people express themselves and interact with others.

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auditory stimming

Auditory stimming is a natural self-regulatory behavior that involves making sounds with your voice, either through non-word vocalizations (vocal stimming) or speech-based expressions (verbal stimming). This form of stimming helps with emotional regulation, sensory processing, and achieving comfort and focus.

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flat affect

Flat affect is an autistic speech pattern that can include fewer facial expressions, reduced eye contact and speech that others might describe as 'monotone'. While these might be be interpreted as diminished emotional response, they actually reflect a different way of processing and expressing emotions. The intensity can vary with stress or cognitive load, and it often indicates deep focus rather than disinterest.

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About the Author

  • Livia Farkas

    Livia is a Neurodivergent Adaptation Educator with a sharp sense for simplifying complex ideas. Since 2008, she's developed 294 distinct techniques catered to the needs of clients. A total of 5058 alumni have enrolled in one or more of the 8 online courses she co-developed with Adam, offering neurodivergence-inclusive frameworks for time management, goal setting, self-care for mental health, and small-business management.
    Her life goal is to be a walking permission slip for neurodivergent adults.
    In her free time, she enjoys stickers & planners, crochet & roller skates, and running around with her pet bunny Rumi.

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