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Juli Martos

All articles below were illustrated by Juli

About Juli Martos

Weirdly Successful’s resident artist is Juli Martos, a psychologist by trade, and illustrator by practice.
Juli lives in Budapest, Hungary with her rescue kittens and partner, and loves to play video games in her spare time.

Content type: Explainer❓Explainer

I have tried traditional “self-care” activities, and they don’t do anything for me. What am I doing wrong?

Nothing! Neurodivergent brains need more time to process, decompress, and recharge. It probably has to do with how For us neurodivergent folks, the type of rest has to match our needs. A lot of neurotypical forms of rest work against what we need. “Candle-lit bubble bath?” If you’re ADHD, an understimulating environment might force your …

Read moreI have tried traditional “self-care” activities, and they don’t do anything for me. What am I doing wrong?
Content type: Article💡Article

I Wasn’t ‘Just A Bit Stressed Out’

Exploring the impact of internalised ableism made me re-evaluate my misinterpreted autistic and ADHD traits.

Read moreI Wasn’t ‘Just A Bit Stressed Out’
Content type: Article💡Article

ADHD & Autism on the Rise: Are There More Neurodivergent People Now?

Why it seems there are more neurodivergent people now than before, when in fact we've always been here.

Read moreADHD & Autism on the Rise: Are There More Neurodivergent People Now?
Content type: Article💡Article

The Weird Winter Holiday Workbook – a neurodivergent-friendly Christmas-ish planner

There are lots of winter holiday planners out there. Not a lot of them are particularly ADHD, Autism or neurodivergence-friendly, though! So we created this one to reduce holiday stress, hassle and overwhelm so you can: Waiting for you on the pages ahead is a combination of guided self-care and planning pages to help you …

Read moreThe Weird Winter Holiday Workbook – a neurodivergent-friendly Christmas-ish planner
Content type: Article💡Article

I didn’t think I was neurodivergent – until I learned what it really means

"How did no one ever notice??"

The amount of times this sentence is heard in our house, along with the dramatically exaggerated waving of arms, would definitely qualify for a sitcom catchphrase.

You see, reader, I'm what they call "late-diagnosed".

"Late" is relative, of course. For ADHD, "late diagnosis" can mean anything from above 60 for those above 60 to 25 for those who are 25. For Autism, …

Read moreI didn’t think I was neurodivergent – until I learned what it really means
Content type: Glossary Entry📖Glossary Entry

demand avoidance

Demand avoidance means appearing opposed to doing something when it's perceived as a demand, especially from an authority figure - even if you actually want to do the thing. While it may look like defiance or stubbornness to others, it's actually an involuntary self-preservation response triggered by threats to autonomy. This response happens automatically, not as a conscious decision to be …

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Content type: Glossary Entry📖Glossary Entry

masking

Masking is a partly unconscious effort to hide or suppress the manifestations of your neurodivergence. It is an exhausting process that many of us do to "fit in" more. Many people start to mask to avoid abuse, discrimination, bullying, harm and ableism.

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Content type: Article💡Article

How to spot if a product for ADHD is a rip-off: look out for these 10 red flags

Apps, productivity systems, quizzes for ADHD types, supplements, oh my! Not everything labelled with ADHD is actually good for ADHD.
In this article, we'll show you how to tell if a product or service is just using ADHD as a buzzword for a quick cash grab.

Read moreHow to spot if a product for ADHD is a rip-off: look out for these 10 red flags
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ADHD Planners: Bad advice, myths, solutions and best choices

One of the most common pieces of advice for people with ADHD is ‘just use a planner’. I’ve been using planners and notebooks since the age of 10, and as a neurodivergent person, let me tell you one thing: this advice, on its own, is bullsh*t.

Read moreADHD Planners: Bad advice, myths, solutions and best choices

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